99 Mistakes Men Make in Relationship

1. Acting needing a woman to love him and care for him likes a nanny.
2. Chasing after her as if she is the last girl on the planet.
3. Thinking and acting like he is too precious for her to have in life.
4. Thinking that every girl has fatal attraction on him and he is too hot for her.
5. Trying to impress and convince her that he is a nice guy on the block.
6. Secretly pursue `mother-love' in their adult relationships with women.
7. Not expressing affection to her and forgetting how to be romantic sometimes.
8. Forgetting important dates, anniversaries and occasions.
9. Forgetting her favorite color, food, perfumes, brands of bags and shoes.
10. Not appreciating her kind of sentimentalism and romantic expressions.
11. Hiding his true feelings, his needs, and his fear from her as if he is a robot cop.
12. Discounting his emotion thinking that it might make him vulnerable to her.
13. Becoming unemotional to the world fearing she might take advantage of him.
14. Keeping too many emotions as “top secret” from her pretending everything is ok.
15. Avoiding the hassles of planning and leaving everything for her decisions.
16. Not assuming total responsibility, arranging and orchestration of things at home.
17.  Taking her suggestions, advice and counsel as criticism or condemnation.
18. Becoming hypersensitive to her criticism rejecting every good point.
19. Reacting defensively when she challenges his ability to do things perfectly.
20. Failure to make her understand that he associates his self-esteem to his success.
21. Being irrationally shy, timid, lacking confident and always nervous than her.
22. Being typically boring lacking humor of many little things around him.
23. Being untidy, foul smelling, unhygienic, bad odors means goodbye from her.
24. Typically making everything in the house messy and leaving it for her to clean.
25. Being isolated most of the time, a certified loner even when he is with her.
26. Always angry with people, dogs, cats, with the world and with her.
27. Having dodgy, ill-mannered, unpolished friends he treasured more than her.
28. Boasting about your wealth, success and greatness turn her away from you.
29. Being self-centered and arrogantly monopolizing the conversation.
30. Being zealot about your religious and political belief tagging her alone.
31. Trying hard to be low class comedian forcing her to buy his corny jokes.
32. Developing a style of loving designed to control her with commitment.
33. Giving her look more attention than going about to know her personally.
34. Treating her like his mother or like his maid demanding the best service.
35. Reading her call for comfort as call for rescue to solve the problem for her.
36. Refusing to listen to her when she to discuss problems with him.
37. Always assuming that she wants sex disregarding her sexual appetite.
38. Without being sympathetic to her hesitation to have sex with him.
39. Not stating his desire for her and not giving her freedom to choose.
40. Confuses making love with having sex and forcing it down her throat.
41. Feeling threatened, intimidated and unsecured by her success and gains.
42. Thinking that how much he has in his pocket will make her attracted to him.
43. Putting her on a pedestal and give her the power over him to control.
44. Giving her too much adoration, too much approbation, spoiling her arrogance.
45. Giving her acceptance for her sex appeal and not for her devotion to her family.
46. Failure to provide leadership to her and demanding her to lead instead.
47. Failure to give her proper respect, honor and acceptance that she deserves.
48. Consulting her not to make her the leader but to make her happy as partner.
49. Living by the notion that there is only one woman for him, that is his ex.
50. Always suspicious of her actions and motives, basically, not trusting her.
51. Treating his partner the way he treat and deal with his car or his horse.
52. Allowing her to render him powerless and totally dependent on her.
53. Pretending to meet her expectations, trying to be somebody else to her.
54. Playing games or doing stupid things just because he wants her attention.
55. Living in the past, tagging all the bad memories with its pains and miseries.
56. Discussing and comparing his exes with her complicates things around.
57. Making a little argument a big issue until it engulfs their both of them.
58. Not dealing with the issues at hand, leaving problems unsolved.
59. Spending too much time with her giving no space for her to grow alone.
60. Denying her the friendship that she was longing from him.
61. Always telling lies and hiding behind many coverings.
62. Being an ambitious man who does not knows where he is going in life.
63. Being a man who have the ability to be himself and not try to put on an act.
64. Loving to wear too much jewelry, and accessories than her.
65. Trying to impress you by talking about their material possessions.
66. Obsessed with sports and forcing her to join him in being avid fans.
67. Always looking in the mirror and his muscles to impress her.
68. Being too sexually aggressive and overly flirt with other ladies.
69. Habitually drank unable to maintain poise and soberness.
70. Existing without passion and excitement in life.
71. Making her the center of his life, overly passionate and romantic.
72. Being a nice guy desperately seeking approval and acceptance.
73. Watching women and commenting about their breasts while with her.
74. A certified practitioner of double talk, undependable and ever changing.
75. He is very lazy at home leaving household chores to her to do alone.
76. Not a good supporter and provider of his family and children.
77. Extremely possessive becoming jealous with no rational reason.
78. Hypocrite, liar, double meaning vocabulary and always excusing self.
79. Always dominating the TV and Video having no time to clean the yard.
80. Possessing a superman mentality making himself available to help anyone.
81. Regarding every girl as total bitch and slut withholding respect and honor.
82. Disregarding her request for input in decision making, leaving her alone.
83. Questioning everything up to the minute details that usually trigger a fight.
84. Ignoring her whenever she starts to talk of the obvious things around.
85. Pampering his ego not asking for direction until he is lost 30 miles away.
86. Believing that the good you do today will last until tomorrow without her.
87. Lingering on his good motives and can't understand it when his partner.
88. Being domineering, extremely possessive, egotistical, iron-fisted dictators.
89. Allowing family members or friends to dictate what happens in the relationship.
90. Allow your wife's family to make decisions that directly affect your relationship.
91. Allowing outside opinions or ideas to influence your relationship bond.
92. Getting philosophical during "cuddle time” instead of just keeping quiet.
93. Watching TV, reading, surfing, listening to music while talking with her.
94. Claiming that he has no previous girlfriends when many e-mails deny that.
95.  Not understanding the value of cut flowers even on her birthday.
96. Insisting on a level of grooming that you are in no way prepared to reciprocate.
97. Solving every problem, explaining every issue, talking technical things.
98. Not taking her bait from an obvious attempt to fish a compliment from him.
99. Buying her a gift that is contrary to her taste, preference likes and desire.

There is no way you can please another person to the utmost, not her and not someone else. The solution to any problem of man, to every problem is the application of pertinent Bible doctrine. The Word of God has solution to every human problem including the problems of relationship. The task of every regenerated believer is to study doctrine, metabolize it and apply it to life situation.

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