Mistakes Women Make in Relationship


   A successful  relationship is the
   not product of hard work but of
   Christ and Bible Doctrine in the
   souls of the couples.



99 Mistakes Women Make in Relationship

99 Fatal Mistakes That Women Make To Mess Up Their Relationship

When you enter into a relationship you have to be very careful in order to make it successful. Be aware of your partner’s insecurities and nature and work only according to it. Make yourself a strong and independent woman and avoid making mistakes that can ruin your relationship. There are 99 fatal mistakes that women seem to make to mess up their relationship:

1.      Trusting the guy too quickly and giving in to his desire.

2.      Revealing too many intimate details about your life without taking time to assess.

3.      Leaving herself vulnerable for his manipulation and intimidation.

4.      Falling to his false and empty promises lure you into his trap.

5.      Settling for just anyone in desperation to have someone.

6.      Accepting disrespect from verbal and physical abuses.

7.      Losing your sense of self by allowing feelings of guilt or unworthiness to steal your self-worth.

8.      Isolating herself from those who truly care and concern for her.

9.      Dwelling on the negative circumstance being consumed with the worry and fear.

10.  Always talking about her insecurities and fear seeking for his attention.

11. Trying to change him forcefully forgetting that nobody can change somebody.

12. Avoiding the path of pain by denying that you are hurting and bleeding.

13.  Not facing the issue at hand and make a decision about how you will handle it.

14. Replacement mental attitude which rush out to find someone else immediately to fill the void of the ended relationship.

15. Being attracted to the same kind of guy who left her for another woman.

16. Talking too much more than necessary.

17. Forcing her man to listen to her endless operatic nagging.

18. Interfering in affairs of others especially of his family members.

19. Unrealistic expectations from her partner to fulfill.

20. Easily getting suspicious of her partner apart from reasonable doubt.

21. Easily getting jealous and feeling insecure of other women around.

22. Demanding her partner to worship her only.

23. Being too dependant on her lover for everything and every decisions.

24. Raving about her exes in from of him telling how they hurt her.

25. Being too aggressive, doing the chasing of her lovers.

26. Throws herself at men gives off the impression that she is desperate.

27. Not talking about marriage and starting a family to non-serious guys.

28. Holding back your confidence and trying to look weak before him.

29. Trying to contend with her man in career, attainment or other aspects.

30. Boasting of her professional accomplishments, success and honors.

31. Not recognizing his success, victories, achievements and hard works.

32. Always thinking that all is agreed without leaving a space for discussion.

33. Not providing an emergency exit when there is heated argument.

34. Infringing on his personal territory, taking decision for him or coercing him.

35. Remembering, digging, excavating the past.

36. Comparing him with other guys around or with her exes.

37. Always reminding him the truth of his failures, shortcoming and uselessness.

38. Not giving him the praise and confirmation he is the best lover.

39. Trying to impress him that all his previous girls were worse than you.

40. Constantly asking “Do you love me?” and urge him to confirm it.

41. Using the praise “We have nothing to talk about” when he is talking to you.

42. Making him like a museum exhibit she brags about to her friends.

43. Telling your and his female friends not to touch him being yours.

44. Planning in advance for him as if you are disposing him like a puppet.

45. Trying to break his bad habits in order to make him as you want him to be.

46. Monitoring his every move, checking on him from time to time.

47. Calling him too often to know what he is doing or his where about.

48. Forcing him to wear clothes, shoes, ties or anything he hates wearing.

49. Asking him to agree with you that you are created for each other.

50. Always using the pronoun “we” instead of “I” making him compel to you.

51. Trying to make the impression that he is going to loss his independence in you.

52. Taking love for granted, not giving the needed constant attention to keep it.

53. Not taking quality time together to discuss important matters and solve problems.

54. Turning into someone else by makeovers and cosmetics trying to impress him.

55. Loosing your human dignity by some bad manners and losing temperance.

56. Speaking ill of his parents, immediate relatives.

57. Going out of your way to make him jealous using some other guys.

58. Comparing him with your exes especially when it comes to performance. 

59. Telling him that you are leaving him for no perceptible reasons.

60. Telling your friends about his mistakes, infidelity and immorality.

61.  Focusing on the other woman, real or suspect woman of your partner.

62. Allowing family members or friends to dictate what happens in the relationship.

63. Allow your wife's family to make decisions that directly affect your relationship

64. Calling and threatening the other woman to leave your partner.

65.  Broadcasting to your friends and his friends that he is cheating you.

66. Discussing or confiding to another man about your husband affair.

67. Taking your relationship seriously becoming like paranoid about it.

68. Making baby out your man and spoiling him in every aspect.

69. Shopping till you drop and he penniless.

70. Going shopping with him and forcing him buy what you like him to wear.

71. Staying in front of mirror and coming to the party late with him.

72. Going after the fashion trends and forcing him to cope up with her.

73. Noticing every minute detail and nagging him about it.

74. Criticizing other women about everything in front of him.

75. Interrogating him about every name of women he mentioned.

76. Becoming too possessive of him asking him to hold or hug you in public.

77. Reminding him of her extreme insecurities asking him to stay from girls.

78. Occasionally testing her man with obscure theoretical nonsense questions.

79. Breaking into tears for even little things like late reply to your e-mail.

80. Using the emotional blackmail to get what you want from him.

81. Allowing outside opinions or ideas to influence your relationship bond.

82. Having a holier than thou" attitude, than him, telling to have some religion.

83. Keep telling him that she is conservative and never fooled with other men.

84. Blaming him for every problem around as if he the bad omen.

85. Keep telling him that she cannot believe him that he really loves her.

86. Challenging his ability to do things perfectly in the best of his skills.

87. Telling him "You're bad”, “You're wrong”, “You aren't good enough."

88. Jumping to conclusions by assumptions apart from facts.

89. Questioning everything up to the minute details that usually trigger a fight.

90. Ignoring him whenever he starts to talk of the obvious things around.

91. Believing that the good you do today will last until tomorrow without him.

92. Lingering on her good motives and can't understand it when he rejected it.

93. Insisting on a level of grooming that you are in no way prepared to reciprocate.

94. Not taking his bait from an obvious attempt to fish a compliment from her.

95. Buying him a gift that is contrary to his taste, preference likes and desires.

96. Claiming that she has no previous boyfriends when many e-mails deny that.

97. Not appreciating his little deeds of love, sacrifices, and perseverance for her.

98. Not completing him for his routine tasks, and things he usually do for her.

99. Forgetting to tell him how important he is to her life.


There is no way you can please another person to the utmost, not her and not someone else. The solution to any problem of man, to every problem is the application of pertinent Bible doctrine. The Word of God has solution to every human problem including the problems of relationship. The task of every regenerated believer is to study doctrine, metabolize it and apply it to life situation.





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